IS IT HEALTHY TO LOVE ALONE


 Have you ever wondered why it's always the best to be in a one sided love? Unrequited love is't that bad as movies and k drama's portray them. Loving someone is like trusting them with a sharp sword, turning your back and trusting them to never stab you in the back with it. Sometimes you get tooooo (x10) lucky that they stab you in the heart, right where it hurts. 

Why is it healthy to fall in love alone and not with someone else's knowledge...The perks of having one sided crushes...

You save your self from the pain of a heart break - you can avoid that deep and wretched pain of being stabbed in the heart by a glowing hot knife. You can save the tears and wave bye to puffy face.

You are in a cost effective pursuit of happiness that might result probably in a happily ever after.There are no expensive gifts and makeup. You are saved from the electricity and OTT bills since you won't be staying home, ordering takeouts and watching love tragedies one after another. You won't even need extra tissues since there are no tears. (A spectacular way to save dollar bills)

You are saved from the chances of embarrassing situation like confrontation from a rival or face-to-face encounters with your supposed in-laws. 

It's a good hobby to have. Loving every beautiful people out there while not having to 'get over' it or 'regret' it later.

Finally, you can move on when you think that person isn't suitable for you without getting into a heated argument.

You are not single (while you are), you are in love (but not in love)...alone (with everyone)...happily (no doubt)...there is contentment.

So, the next time you decide to fall in love - think twice.

THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NO PROBLEM IF IT'S THE OTHER WAY... 

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